Living is Not Linear
Life is always in the process of discovery. We like to imagine that we all have it figured out—expressing our qualms about not showing up as our best selves, but there will never be a right time to take up space. Living is not linear. There will be moments of unexpected twists, periods of growth, setbacks, and breakthroughs. I’ve recently noticed the influx of people striving to be an “exemplary” human. I see you, bound by time, refusing to become visible. How is that all working out for you? You’ve become a bench player to alleviate the undesirable pressure that comes with authentically showing up; you’re afraid of risk. Undoubtedly, many of us view healing as the ultimate purpose or essence of human existence. Don’t get me wrong, I applaud us on our healing journey. But healing shouldn’t take precedence over living fluidly; living fully and coexisting with the triggers that come with healing allows you to be kinder to yourself and take an active, rather than passive, role in your life. Healing is a lifelong process friend, meaning that while you may make significant progress and experience periods of stability, the need for ongoing self-reflection and healing can continue throughout your life as you encounter new challenges and experiences.
A short read that packs a punch will always be exceptional! I agree with you, oftentimes it's easy to romanticize someone else's narrative. In reality they have often made the narrative more linear to fit into others' perceptions of success.